Unicorn homes are often talked about in reactive dog support and rehoming groups.
It refers to a magical home for a behaviourally challenged dog — no kids, no other pets, financial stability, unlimited time, a huge backyard, and a willingness to manage behavioural challenges, etc.
It always gets me thinking about whether I am the right — or best — home for George.
He would definitely benefit from a unicorn home.
I'm probably quite unusual in my age bracket for not having kids. So that’s one tick in the unicorn home box.
Plus, I live a pretty quiet, homebody life.
I can (just about) afford his expensive medication regime, daycare/boarding, and can book Sniffspots, etc.
Could I be one of these unicorn homes?
Where it falls down is...
Neighbours. While George is doing so much better with neighbour noise, I often think about how much calmer he would be without it.
The shared entrance and carpark — very stressful for George.
Working in the office three days a week — George’s separation anxiety means he has to go to daycare. He’s not really got the personality or temperament for regular daycare, but he does his best.
Time. I have a busy job and don’t always have as much time to invest as others might.
I often feel bad that George has to live in suburbia and go to daycare so often. I feel bad that I can’t afford a bigger section with a private entrance.
Maybe he would have been better off with a couple of retirees in the countryside.
Unimaginable, of course, not having my best friend around.
And on the other hand, I’ve changed my whole life for the little guy, and I’m guessing there aren’t that many people who can (or would) do that.
So not a unicorn home... but I do my best to make it a safe and happy one nonetheless.