I’ve been finding it tough recently.
These things come in waves — it was only a couple of weeks ago that I was feeling so empathetic and understanding about George’s challenges.
But lately, it’s been rough. A few big reactions, the stress of leaving the house, the sadness, the grief, the isolation, the frustration — it all came back.
I’m very grateful that we have a few Sniffspots around. They’re a bit of a drive (usually around 40 minutes) and, of course, they add to the endless money pit of caring for a reactive dog — but I’m so thankful for them.
We’ve had a few off-leash dog encounters recently. And of course, my head is constantly in swivel mode in public, looking for triggers. Spring is here in New Zealand, and more people (and dogs) are out and about.
At a Sniffspot, the ease, the relief, the ability to just walk, enjoy nature, and breathe the air — it’s amazing.
If we manage to run the neighbour gauntlet without bumping into anyone, it feels like I have a non-reactive, “normal” dog on Sniffspot days.
George is calmer, I am calmer (and I know those are closely related!).
I come home feeling restored and more resilient.
I’ve been stressing about the money, but then I rationalised that I don’t spend money on restaurants or nights out — I can’t — so if we both get some joy out of a stress-free walk, it’s money well spent.
Every stress-free walk helps build George’s confidence and resilience. I was amazed recently when he hopped into one of those blue shells at a Sniffspot — he used to be terrified of those.
He also bounds through the long grass with joy and happiness. This is the same guy who used to be scared of long grass.
To the people who open their land to our anxious, fearful, and reactive dogs — thank you. It makes such a huge difference in our lives.